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Sunday, February 16, 2014

Practically Perfect In Every Way

My sister is probably my favorite person in the whole world. Where I am to-do lists and structure, she is creativity and chaos. She is my best friend. This past weekend, I traveled the 80 miles to Houston to visit her. It never fails- any weekend we spend together is an adventure. This weekend was no exception. In a 24 hour window, we ate weird macaroni and cheese, spent hours searching for the perfect French Macaron, sang Christmas carols at the top of our lungs with the windows down in downtown Houston, ate a rueben sandwich as big as our heads, and painted pottery on a whim. (In case you can't tell by that list, we're most definitely foodies.) All of these things were on a list of firsts for both of us, especially the pottery painting. True to fashion, my sister painted a Mary Poppins themed plate, and I painted one with hearts over the only two places I've ever called home. 




Around her plate, she painted the phrase 'Practically Perfect in Every Way,' a phrase Mary Poppins coined herself. We didn't realize it at the time, but that phrase became the theme of the weekend. 

We finished off our weekend visiting a spot we hadn't been to since childhood, the Bush Intercontinental Airport Observation Lot. It's simply a parking lot located on Old Lee Road (appropriately named after our family) where families can go and watch the airplanes land. For the most part, it's a place to take young children, but my sister and I loved it. Sitting in that parking lot, I was five years old again, and I loved watching those giant birds come in. 


As great as this weekend was, it also raised two important questions: 

When was the last time you did something for the first time? When was the last time you really marveled at the world around you? 

It sounds cliche, right? Like all I'm saying is stop and smell the roses. It's a phrase we've all heard a thousand times, but do we actually ever listen to it? I can honestly say that it's rare for me to ever do anything outside of my comfort zone. I am all schedule and responsibilities, and, in my constant quest for success, I am never about slowing down to appreciate anything. But this weekend was different. 

As we watched those airplanes and drove through the skyscrapers of downtown, I couldn't help but think that those monuments were once just a figment of someone's imagination? At one point, it was simply a dream to even travel through the air, and now trans-atlantic flights happen daily. At one point, they were truly a monument of modernization; now, they're simply a convenience. With that kind of progress, it's easy to forget how special things like that are. 

After pondering those planes for a while, I realized I've been forgetting much more than that. There are so many beautiful things in our every day lives that are so easy to miss if you aren't paying attention: the smile of a new friend, the laugh of a child, or the feeling of sunshine on your face. If we don't slow down and really look around, if we don't take a chance and try something new once in a while, we are bound to miss more than we ever imagined. 

I'm not, by any means, saying that life will be perfect, because our weekend was anything but. You see, it turns out that the macaroni was terrible, the macarons were chewy, you get weird looks for singing Christmas carols in February, and we drug our arms through our paint more times than we cared to count. Life will be exactly the same way. Whether you're doing something for the first time or the fifteenth time, there's a chance you could screw it up. Things will get messy, but there is beauty in the mess. The imperfection is perfect. Because when we try something new or when we just slow down long enough to see the beauty that's already in our lives, we realize that Mary Poppins was right all along. Life is "practically perfect in every way."

Stay happy, my friends.



Wednesday, February 12, 2014

The Beginning

For months and months, I've been debating on starting a blog. On the one hand, it's an opportunity to write down all of my deepest thoughts and feelings. However, on the other hand, it's an opportunity to write down all of my deepest thoughts and feelings. (Yes, I count that as a pro and a con.) Potentially, I could provide a brand new perspective and inspire someone, or people could just find out how crazy I am. It's a lot to consider.

Recently, though, as more and more of my friends began participating in the '100 Happy Days' challenge, I realized that it was the perfect time. The challenge calls for its participants to seek out 100 different things that make them happy and post about one of them each day for the duration of the 100 days. I love it. I love the idea of seeking out something new each day that makes you happy. Maybe it's my inner hippie, but I believe that happiness is a way of travel, and there's no better way to find it than by seeking out the ordinary things that provide it.

In honor of that idea, I decided to begin the 'Happy Days' blog, a blog completely dedicated to finding happiness, fulfillment, and individuality (I'm original- I know) in a world with plenty of problems to get bogged down in. To kick off this search for 'Happy Days,' I have decided to provide a list of 15 things that make me happy.



  1. Jesus
  2. America 
  3. Agriculture 
  4. Mexican Food 
  5. Horses 
  6. Good music 
  7. Black coffee 
  8. Monograms 
  9. Sweet Tea 
  10. Long talks with good friends
  11. Cupcakes 
  12. Audrey Hepburn 
  13. Pearls 
  14. Aggie Football 
  15. Sunrises (sunsets are too cliche) 
I know I said 15, but....

   16. Thunderstorms
   17. Farmer's Markets
   18. Fresh flowers
   19. My family
   20. Rivers
   21. Antique Stores

Yes, my list is all over the place, but those things really make me happy. And I believe finding happiness is really that simple. It's about seeking joy in the little things each day. It's about choosing to see the good in the situation, instead of the bad. It's about choosing to believe that there is still good in the world, and it's about choosing to accept that this is the life we've been given and it's ours to direct. Friends, when we do that, we are bound to find our happy days.